I am one of those people that tells everyone when I love something. I have been known to bother my friends to get them to watch my favorite TV show (which, for the record is the oh-so amazing The IT Crowd) or in my cooler years, listen to that latest indie band. Books tend to be more subjective, but I have a few friends and family members that share my love of books, so when I read a really great book, I want to shout it from the mountain tops! Er, okay, I live in central Virginia, so there aren't really mountains per se, but you get my drift.
That said, I pick my choices wisely. There are certain people I'll pass nearly any book along to. My mother is the first. I'm ashamed to admit that my mom has been reading children's literature for years now, and when she would recommend a book to me, I'd think to myself, "It's a children's book! Sure, I read Harry Potter, but that's different."
Oh, innocent Tara. How you were wrong. It's because of my mother that I read The Mysterious Benedict Society, Libba Bray's Gemma Doyle trilogy-I could go on, but I'll be here all day. I've returned the favor by telling my mom of great books I've read and loved. She and my father came down for a visit shortly after ALA, when all the books were still on my floor. I brought her into my room and we bonded over the books, she hadn't heard of a lot of the new YA releases, but she had me type up a list of the books I thought she'd like the best.
I also have a former co-worker that I keep in touch with who I can share just about every book recommendation with. She favors paranormal romance, but also reads a lot of YA. She most notably introduced me to LJ Smith and The Vampire Diaries.
Then are the folks who are a harder sell. The people who may not read that much, or only read specific genres. My husband falls into this category. He loves hard sci-fi and that makes up most of what he reads. I knew he would love The Hunger Games, so I started pestering him to read it. He pushed me off for awhile, but once he finished up that library book he'd renewed twice because it was in such small type it took him forever to read it, I pushed The Hunger Games into his hands. He read both The Hunger Games & Catching Fire within a week and a half-which is fast for him because he generally just reads before bed. I loved being able to share these books I loved so much with someone I love, and I'm already thinking of which books I can spring on him next.
How do you pass books on to your loved ones? Do you hard sell, or let them discover in their own time?
Photo from the the oh-so wonderful Bookshelf Porn. I LOVE the idea of secret libraries. Have you seen Holly Black's? :drool:
Thursday, July 15, 2010
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My family and I have such different tastes, recommending books is almost impossible. However, I had a major success with my dad earlier this summer. He'd been talking about baseball and wanting to start this massive baseball movie collection (he's retiring and needs a hobby). I mentioned that I'd recently read Alan Gratz's THE BROOKLYN NINE, an awesome short story collection following nine generations of a family and their love of baseball. I thought he'd especially like reading about how the game evolved. Also, I didn't say this to him, but since he's not a big reader I thought the short story format would be great. Later that weekend we swung by a Barnes & Noble and he asked me to find the book for him. He read it almost as quickly as I did and I think we were both tickled that we finally had a book we shared.
ReplyDeleteI do the exact same thing when I love a TV show or a new band. I also don't have many friends that understand the love of reading and books - and I work with Librarians too and I NEVER hear them talking about books. I hardly ever give my books away or let people borrow them. The few times I did let people borrow them I never got them back and I had to rebuy them. Plus I love to see how my library is growing by looking at all the books I have my shelves.
ReplyDelete@ Angela: what a wonderful story. I'm glad you could find a book that both you and your father connected with!
ReplyDelete@ Patricia: I generally don't loan my books out either, but that's mainly because most of my family and friends don't live locally. I've had the same problem you've had with not getting books back! When I share books with friends or loved ones, I usually just jot down the titles and they do the same for me. My husband is the only one I loan books to-I know where he lives. ;)
I love that hidden library photo! I get a lot of my reading ideas from my friends on GoodReads. I also have two close friends who are English teachers like I am, so we talk about new books all the time. Of course, any books that I buy, I put on my classroom library shelves so my students can read them too!
ReplyDeletesometimes(when my favourite shows are not on) i wish we could ban TV and encourage the world to read more...i try to get my friends to read but there boring lol
ReplyDeleteIf there was one person who i wish would read more if at all(as he doesnt read alot) it would be my hubby, he laughs at me and tells me im borings...i stick my nose in the air with a huh and say something that will have him smooching through the dictionary for a while lol
@ Amy Jo: I wish I had teachers like you when I was in school!
ReplyDelete@ The Readings of a Busy Mom: I happen to think people that don't read are a little boring! Hopefully you can find a book some day that your husband will like and he'll understand why you love reading so much. :)
The only people I recommend books to are my friends, and I've recommended so many books to them that they don't even listen to me anymore. :( Even though every book I recommend is one that I love, they just don't believe me anymore. So it always takes a second opinion before they pick up a book that I recommend.
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My brother is a fantasy fan, so I only share books of this genre I love with him and vice versa. I only ever recommend movies to friends and family since its only there that we seem to share similar tastes. :-)
ReplyDeleteI share certain books with certain people. Sadly, a lot of my friends and family don't pleasure read :( so I'm always the one shoving books down their throat.
ReplyDeleteThat photo looks like a dream, by the way!!
Fun post and blog :)
@ Jane: I'm sorry to hear that! I always feel that if someone recommends something to me, I'll check it out and then decide from there if I want to read it. If I do like it, I try to tell the person that told me about it!
ReplyDelete@ Kah Woei: that's awesome that you and your brother like the same books. You're lucky, my sister doesn't read as much as I do, and she prefers the chick-lit genre, which I don't read much of.
@Saumya: I still don't understand people that don't read for pleasure! :o
so um is that picture yours or did you find it online cuz its amazing! I wish I had a secret library in my room that would be so crazy!
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